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The law of attraction is a universal law where you attract unto yourself both the things that you like and dislike. You attract the things that you focus your attention on most. If you’re focusing your attention on all the beauty life has to offer than that will be your experience.  On the other hand, if you’re focusing on all the negative things that may occur to you during your journey that is what you will experience. For example, when searching for a mate people mostly focus on the things they don’t want. “I don’t want a man who is broke or who is too clingy.” By that statement you will keep attracting broke and clingy men. You should only say what you do want so you can only get that. “I want a good looking man who takes me out on high-quality dates, and he always respects my space.”

I learned about the law of attraction in 2007 but I really didn’t start enforcing the law until 2008 after the tragic death of my uncle. After my uncle died I felt terrible and was dealing with awful emotions. I wanted to change my thoughts to a more positive side so I decided to really learn about the law of attraction. I was introduced to law of attraction by the movie called “The Secret”. “The Secret” is a must watch movie created by Rhonda Byrne. This movie will change your life. It will open your eyes to new knowledge but you will then realize that it is really old knowledge that has been with you the whole time. It teaches you how to have the life that you truly desire. You can have the life that you want if you believe that you deserve it. I am already a self motivated individual but this movie added to my motivation. I felt empowered after watching it. My life has really changed and it continues to change for the better as I keep using the tools that I’ve learned from this movie. This movie never gets old to me I can watch it 100 times and learn something new each time.

Every time I meet someone I spread the knowledge of the Secret with them. Please watch the movie and express your thoughts. Below is the first 20 minutes of the secret. Spread the positive knowledge with everyone that you come across. Remember, the more love you give out the more you will receive.  For more information about the Secret movie, check out the official website of the Secret at http://thesecret.tv/index.html.

 This is very Juicy to me 🙂 What do you think Juicy or Dry?

-Juicy Peach

Some people are too needy for love. It seems as if some can’t live without a mate. They will go from relationship to relationship not healing their wounds from their previous relationships. This is not healthy. When you continue with this pattern you will eventually lose yourself if you haven’t already. Being alone and being lonely has two different meanings. If you feel like you need someone at all times then you are feeling lonely. The state of being alone is being able to kick it by yourself. Sometimes you need to be alone so that you can build yourself. If you are not at peace with yourself, then how can you be at peace with others? I like to be alone sometimes. After me and my boyfriend split I took that time to have fun learning additional aspects about myself. I had time to think profound and in depth. When I’m alone I think about my future. I think about the things that I can do to better myself. I love being alone. I feel as if I’m my own best friend. My x-boyfriend however took a different route. After I told him that I needed space and didn’t want to talk to him anymore he immediately went to the next girl he could. Instead of dealing with the emotions from our relationship he tried to burry them, which didn’t work exactly because old feelings keep arising. I don’t know all the thoughts that he was thinking exactly but I do know that he thought that maybe it would be easier to move on to the next girl rather than dealing with the pain alone. I don’t understand why he couldn’t deal with the emotions alone instead of feeling lonely and always having someone there. When people don’t deal with their real emotions it comes back to haunt them. It could be ten years later and they still haven’t dealt with the emotions from their earliest relationships. But people cope with things in different ways.

Know that you don’t always need someone else to hold you down. Hold yourself down. Be there for yourself and love on yourself. The more you love yourself the more others will love you.

Are you a person who always feel lonely? What do you think is the best method to cope with a break up? Express it!

-Juicy Peach