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Do females have low self esteem?

Hey Readers,

What do you think about female self esteem? If I were to measure it as a whole, I would say it’s pretty low. All women are not included in this but most women think low of themselves and they project this low feeling on to others. These females are the overly critical to people because they hate themselves. In a sense I’m talking about haters. I believe that females hate on each other more than men. Friends and family being jealous and envious of each other is common within a group of women. This means that we need to see this as a problem and look to solve it. The solution? Love. Send love to each other and the love you give out will return to you multiplied. For example, I was a contestant in a pageant at my new University. I gave an pretty good performance and won 1st runner up and received an abundance of love from my fellow male schoolmates. At the same time I received a unbelievable amount of hate from the females after I won. This was shocking to me because they do not know me. Social networking sites were booming with my full name and their thoughts about how I shouldn’t have won. I sent those individuals love and thanked them for noticing me. I know that people who don’t believe in themselves or their talent war against those who believe in themselves. So I challenge people to love themselves so that you will at least have the ability to love others. So what do you think? Do you think women hate more than men? Is this an issue in your life?

-Bubblegum

Aysia BerLynn Interview

Juicy Peach: When did you fall in love with music

Aysia: I think I’ve been in love with music all my life. I can remember my mom listening to Anita Baker when I was little and I never imagined doing anything else besides music. There are a lot of people who want to be lawyers and doctors and I just always thought that I would be a singer or doing something with music.

Juicy Peach: When did you first decide to become an artist?

Aysia: I first decided to become an artist at the age of 13. My parents bought me a keyboard and I would sit and write songs about everything. I started performing and I was like this is what I want to do and I’m going to do it. I’ve been in 3 groups since I started and now I’m just on my own doing my own thing.

Juicy Peach: Why did the groups stop?

Aysia: I was in groups with rappers and we were young, there were so much things going on. That was the first group that I was in it was called “Elite”. Then I was in this large group of neo Soul artists and rappers. They were all older than me like 30’s and I moved away to college and I didn’t go back and I started working on my own stuff.

Juicy Peach: What is the most meaningful song that you’ve written?

Aysia: So far it would be “Anybody” from my mixtape because I thought about so many women/girls going through situations. It flowed right out of me, I didn’t even realize what I was writing at the time but after listening to it it gives me chills. So yeah that would be it.

Juicy Peach: How have you been getting your name out there to the public?

Aysia: At one point of time I was doing shows. I’m slacking on the shows but I put my music out on every website that I could find. Also word of mouth, I get my copies made and I hand them out. Im getting ready to go full forced, I’m about to get some posters down and go hard with my own street team and supporting myself. I don’t really have a lot of people to work with me but everything that I have done thus far has been on my own.

Juicy Peach: Who is your favorite singer?

Aysia: My favorite singer was Aaliyah, I just loved how she let it all out and kinda had a soft delivery but now my favorite singer is Jill Scott.

Juicy Peach: What is your ultimate goal for your music?

Aysia: I don’t just want people to know me as a singer I want them to know me for my lyrics. I want to write for people for the most part. I think everybody should know exactly who I am so they can hear what I’m saying that’s really important to me. Cause im not sitting up talking about some off the wall stuff everything that I feel is deep. I just want people to know how I am as a person and LISTEN TO THE LYRICS.

Juicy Peach: How many mixtapes have you delivered?

Aysia: This is my first mixtape.The very first cd that I put out last year had two songs on there those were kind of done on a limb I just wanted to get them out there but this is my first mixtape with 17 tracks on it all written by me.

Juicy Peach: If you could have a conversation with anybody dead or alive who would it be and why?

Aysia: I would like to have a conversation with Donny Hathaway because I listened to his music and it’s like so deep and I would like to know where he got the inspiration for his songs and I would like to know exactly why did he decide to kill himself because his music was so awesome. It seems like we always loose the people who thinks outside of the box in a whole different way.

Juicy Peach: Specifically what’s next for you?

Aysia: I really want to find some type of label that would be interested in my music I also want to go with some publishing companies because like I said previously I really want to write for people and that’s basically what I really want to do. So I’m going to go hard on that and try to find someone to support me for me and the music that I like to write. I don’t want to change I just want to be orginal. So that’s next on my list.

Follow Aysia on Twitter: @AysiaBerLynn

Introducing Aysia BerLynn

I came across Aysia BerLynn this summer by searching the web for new music. Her mixtape “Introducing Aysia BerLynn” was posted on STLMixtapes.com I listened to most of it but when I came across her song “Anybody” I knew that she was talented and I had to interview her for Juicy Talk. Aysia is 24 and she’s from St.Louis (My Hometown). She has such a sweet spirit and her lyrics really speak to me. I love people who have passion for what they do, she definelty has passion for her music. Below is her song “Anybody”. I’ve heard it and I vote Juicy! But ofcourse I desire to know what you think so what is your vote? Juicy Or Dry?

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-Juicy Peach

Just Do You

Goodmorning Readers! Today I just wanted to send out some positive energy your way that was sent to me. Lately I’ve been worrying about the wrong things. I’ve been having misunderstandings in my relationships. I’ve been stressing out about my classes because I still dont have one of my school books. And I’ve been putting my energy onto other things that I shouldnt have.  But then it comes to me like an ephiphany *in Chrisette Michelle’s voice*!! LOL I need to only focus on me and everything else will fall into place. And that’s exactly what I’ve been doing. Now everything is going my way. So if y’all are going through the same thing that I went through please know that you dont need to worry about no one else but yourself. You cant control nobody’s actions but your own. I promise that if you focus on yourself with love and positve energy your life will be the way you want it. So go for what you want and dont take no as an answer. I love ya’ll!!!!

 

-Juicy Peach

Slithering Snake

Okay readers this is a huge, huge, HUGE topic that I had to write about. When you’re in a relationship for some reason there are always people damning your relationship. Haters are what we call them. But we all think that haters are only outside people but please beware of the Slithering Snake! According to dictionary.com slithering is defined as to slide down or along a surface, especially unsteadily, from side to side, or with some friction or noise. The slithering snakes are the people who are closest to you. They may be your sister, brother, best-friend, uncle, auntie or even cousin. They are the people who you at least expect to cross you. Their goal is to conquer what you have or something like it. They could be trying to get your man/woman or to make you as miserable as they are. As we all know misery loves company. When you discover that you have a slithering snake among you at first you may be shocked. You may think but why would they do that to me? I thought they loved me. They may love you but remember how you love may not be how others love.

Signs of a Slither Snake

  • Calling your girl/man ugly (friction or noise)
  • Always knowing your business but secretive about theirs (slide down or along a surface)
  • Trying to be besties with your mate (unsteadily)
  • Only seeing the negative in your mate (unsteadily)

 

I’ve had someone to tell me that the boy I was seeing was ugly but when I claimed him all of a sudden she was so interested in him. It was like she wanted to slowly take my place. I’ve also had a friend (at least I thought she was my friend) scooped my x right after I dumped him LOL. O’l girl didn’t waste any time. I know ya’ll probably thinking well if you dumped him then why should you care. But I think its messed up to finally found out that your friend wanted your man the whole time you were with him she was just waiting for her chance. I would expect that from outside people but I didn’t expect that I had a slithering snake amongst me. Usually if you go through a breakup your girls are the ones cheering you up, “ Cheer up ol pup” lol  but the slithering snakes are the ones who will be happy inside. They finally got their chance to get what they wanted since the beginning. Luckily in my case I really needed to separate myself from that relationship anyways and the slihering snake helped that process move faster. What God has for me will always and forever be for me that man wasn’t the one for me. But I still didn’t understand why would a girl want a man who still wanted to be with his ex. But not to worry because the grass is never greener on the other side.

 Nicki Minaj song “Warning” is a perfect example of the Slithering Snake she thought her girl Kandi was a real friend but ol girl was a slithering snake smh!!! “Damn bitches wanna f*** with my man on the other hand things ain’t always what you plan..It’s the ones up in ya Prom picture ..Salon with’cha…Now they wanna..creep in ya mans jeep..I bet you Nicki won’t sleep”

 

You cant stop someone from being a Slithering Snake but you can beaware of them and its best that you don’t tell your business about your relationship to them. Have any ya’ll expreinced a slithering snake? Have any of ya’ll been a slithering snake? Let me know the juicy gaga! Express it!

-Juicy Peach