I just wanted to write ya’ll and tell ya’ll thanks for all the support. Everytime I log into my blog I see that I am blessed with many comments. I am glad that ya’ll continue to support me. I’ve been slacking lately (not purposely) because I’ve been letting my schedule get the best of me but I am going to turn up the blog so much within this next week. Thanks again my loves.
Okay I wont blame these songs totally for lowering women self-esteem because *self-esteem has to do with SELF. Meaning it all belongs to you. You are the only one who can lower it or higher it. BUT these songs that Women write for other women does contribute. I’m personally tired of the heartbreak songs and the helpless songs that I cant get over a man. But maybe that’s just me. I wanna hear the uplifting songs about love and wonderful experiences. Songs about how we got over that man. Below are my top 3 songs that I think Low Self Esteem Women should never listen to. These songs put these women in a crazy negative mindset. Also these songs will never give u the strength to do better. Please add to my list or give your own top 3. Express it!
When you meet someone new whether male or female one word that they automatically use to describe themselves is “Real”. They always say that I’m as “Real” as it gets, I always say whats on my mind. Well today my question is where are the real people when stuff gets real in your life? Where are they when you are going through your problems and you need some “Real” encouragement? You will notice that the same people who have always been there will remain. Those are the people who didn’t have to claim their “Realness” because it was already proven through their actions.
Track 10 on J.cole’s Album (Cole-World Sideline Story) is a song called Lost Ones. Lost Ones is a perfect example of a man being there for a woman when it was time for dating, sexing, and etc…but when she ended up pregnant he wanted the quick way out. What happened to the previous man who was always there? He acted like she got pregnant by herself.
She said nigga you got nerve
To come up to me talkin’ bout abortion
This my body nigga so don’t think you finna force shit
See I knew that this is how you act, so typical
Said you love me, oh, but now you flipping like reciprocals
There are so many examples of “Real” people not being there when its really time for them to be there, this is just one example. The crazy thing is that people can really fool you because you will have no idea that they will treat you a certain way because they always treated you good at first. Have ya’ll ever been in a situation where you were going through something and a friend or family member bailed on you? Express it!
Yes, you read the title clearly and what’s even unclear is the answer to whether or not straight men sleeping with trans-gendered women should be accepted in our society. However, the answer to that seems to be pretty clear, when popular music artist such as Chingy, Lil Wayne, and Soulja Boy are being spotted with popular trans-gendered women such as the infamous Sidney Starr (seen in the pictures below). Sidney Starr is one of the latest, sexiest, and most gorgeous trans- gendered women on the scene. Not only is she open with her transition from a man to a woman, but there are also videos of her openly telling straight men about her trans- gendered form and them still consenting to be involved with her. However, with trans-gendered women such as Sidney Starr walking the earth… has this changed the dating pool? Will people soon be considered as Tri-Sexual? And if so will this consideration be accepted among straight women who solely want to date men that consider themselves straight? Although I do not hold animosity towards those who embrace a homosexual life style, I do have a problem with a man who considers him self straight to sleep with trans-gendered women. No matter what penis a man has removed or a** and breast he has implanted I still consider that person to be a man. I also feel that any other man who chooses to be involved with him romantically to be homosexual as well. What are your feelings on this? …Keep it juicy!
About a year ago I came across this book called “Secrets of a Millionaire Mind” At this time my mind was on so many other things that I really didn’t pursue this knowledge right away. I had steady income because I worked at the airport full time. I felt good cause I didn’t really need to ask anybody for anything I was carrying my own as well as pursuing my Business Administration Degree. I moved on from that job as spring semester ended because I wanted to be free and enjoy my family for a change. Working at the airport prevented me from going home for summer break and holidays. I was ecstatic to go home but then I realized that my steady income was going to stop. I then began thinking of ways that I could attract money to myself. I started listening to the audio of “Secrets of a Millionaire Mind” and it taught me alot. It taught me that I can still be free doing what I love and still get money. It also talks about expecting money on a frequently basis, and if you do this money will come to you out of no where. For those who are not big on faith this might sound silly to you but its true. The things that he talks about in this book will change your life for the better. I have not mastered everything yet but I will soon and I will begin on my journey to becoming a millionaire. Below is one of the clips of his seminars. Watch it with an open mind and tell me your thoughts. REMEMBER ITS JUST POSITIVE KNOWLEDGE SO IT CANT HURT YOU IT CAN ONLY HELP.