Giving Head, Neck, Fellatio, Brain, Oral sex, it’s called so many things now days but the real question is, “How do people really feel about it?” Some people think that oral sex is just a regular part of sex and can be performed with a permanent or casual sex partner. However, there are others who would rather have vaginal sex before they ever put their mouth on a casual sex partner’s penis or vagina. Some men and women say oral sex is a hard earned, special extra-curricular activity that should only be performed on a person that you are in a committed relationship with. There is also the stigma that if a woman performs ORAL SEX too soon they are a “Bussa”, “Jump off”, or , “Easy, with that being said how is a man labeled if he decides to perform fellatio during his first sexual encounter with a new partner? All in all, When is it the right time to have oral sex with your partner or should couples not have have oral sex at all because of certain hygienic issues?
-Green Apple
I have given oral before without being deep with someone before but that is a rare case. I feel like that’s too deep to be doing with just anyone. It’s levels to this sh**. If you are my man and we are connected mind, body, and soul I can be on a no filter level with you. If not and we happen to have sex I’m not doing automatic oral sex. That’s something special to share and everyone doesn’t deserve you on that level.
Oral sex is a must for me. To quote SWV, “you gotta go downtown. That’s the way to my love.” I enjoy giving and receiving. It’s 2014, people, we’re all grown.. If you think less of a man or woman because he/she indulges in oral, you are too young to be having sex. Ladies, if you don”t please your man, he will find someone who will. Fellas, if you don’t please your woman, she will find someone who will. That being said, you must be hygeinic about it. I’m talking get tested , TOGETHER, before engaging in oral sex (because come on, who actually uses dental dams?) , brush and floss and listerine before and after, and never with someone with messed up teeth; too many places for germs to hide, nuh uh. Some people may think all of that disrupts the “flow” of things, but whatever. You are setting yourself up for BV and yeast infections if you letting just any old body have a taste (aka “stank cooch”)
Preach!!!
I think oral sex is must but like Juicy Peach said it’s too deep to be doing that with just anyone. There are too many diseases out there. Personally I like to give and receive but only with someone I’m on that level with. That’s just me.
Giving head use to be so taboo but now if you don’t give head there’s a 90% chance your significant other is getting it from someone else. I don’t think a relationship should be based off whether or not you give head but it’s a very vital part of a relationship. With that being said don’t go around putting your mouth on and in everything.
Altho we are older now I still feel like that stigma of giving head as a woman is there therefore ppl aren’t as free with it. If yal canhave sex why cant oral be done? I understand nothing at all or not just giving head to random people but if we already having sex and i feel like it why not? Do you ladies hold these same standards for a man giving you oral?
I think if you are in a relationship then you should be willing to give oral sex! For me I have to have it. I like getting head and when I want it I feel like I should get it. On the other hand you can expect the same from me. When you want it you get it because I am here to please you! If I’m not in a relationship with you though I’m not eating shit. Just my opinion!
I feel that when your in the moment you should just go with the flow. (Of course only if everything smells and looks good) oral can be something you share with either a casual partner or in a committed relationship, sex is a great thing in any form, a natural way of expression through touch! So with that being said, if the opportunity presents itself , go for it! 🙂
Everybody needs to go to the clinic.