Be Cautious of Who You Are Confiding With

When we go through our hardest times, it is only natural to reach out to vent to those who we feel that are closest to us. At the time, they may be doing or saying anything that they can to make you feel better but some of those people are also judging you in the back of their mind. You may say, it is hard not to judge someone who has done something that you feel you wouldn’t have done. But in my opinion, it should just stay at that statement without the judgment. When I listen to some of my friends express themselves about whatever, I may say to myself, “I would have done something different in this situation” but I do not judge them and think they are stupid for doing this or dumb for doing x,y, and z. I don’t have any right to judge another because I don’t know their mindset fully or know what they are battling with internally. I have had people judge me in the past and that made me not want to reach out to them when I felt like expressing the real. Have you ever been judged for something that you have told to your friend or family member? Are you a person that secretly judges others when they express themselves to you in confidence? If so do you feel that you have the right to judge others for certain things that they do? Be cautious of who you are confiding with! Express your thoughts below.

 

 

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  1. I have been judged a lot and looked over in my life. Like they say “they slept in me”. It’s not easy being judged sometimes you start to believe what is being said about you if you’re not careful. I have said judgement all comments regarding this worlds youth but that’s mostly about the outward expression of themselves and portrayal through social media. Nevertheless, no one has the right to judge another but that’s difficult for a lot of parents. I feel do everything in love and stay in your own vortex. Let God be God.

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